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Ever lost touch, let a good friendship die,
'cause you never had time to call and say "hi"?
You better slow down, don't dance too fast,
time is short, the music won't last.
When you run so fast to get somewhere,
you miss the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through each day,
it is like an unopened gift thrown away.
Life is not a race, so take it slower,
hear the music before the song is over.
Wednesday, December 10, 2008

United Family

Posted by Galaxy of Kenshin




Hi Friends this is my First post in the blogger I would like to share and start my process with the topic of "Joint Family"

Joint Family- What does it mean actually? Is it a practise ? or is it a kind of philosophy ? or Is it a culture.I could say it as Part of culture ,its a part of practise etc... Where it actually emerges from India? or America ? or London ?.... Is it anybody have answer for this question .

It seems like in olden days the concept of Join Family were familiar and people prefer them self to adapt in those kind of environment than an individual one .But it is very hard to find join family in a city and it would be rare case too...

What is the difference between a join family and a individual owned family ? why am I insisting more about join family family concept. Because now I am in a join family but it could be the only reason i have had 22 years of experience being one of the member in join family and still too.

In general at all the concepts there will be advantage as well as disadvantage too. In my experience i found a lot of advantages in join family concept then a independent family. I wont say like there is no happiness towards independent family but comparatively it seems there is more benefits over join family and lots of problem over there in independent family.

Its not a culture of India , I too heard like at America people were celeberating the day called "Thanks Giving Day" Where all the members from 2 or 3 generation will join together , have a discussion themselves . There they were allowed free to submit there thoughts and thinkings etc. Each and everyone finally thank others like very proud to be one of the member in this family and you played such a nice role in my life and so on.Its for only one day

But in India they were all together for life long .In the joint family setup the workload is shared among the members, often unequally. The women are often housewives and cook for the entire family. The patriarch of the family (often the oldest male member) lays down the rules and arbitrates disputes. Other senior members of the household baby sit infants in case their mother is working. They are also responsible in teaching the younger children their mother tounge, manners and etiquette.

The house often has a large reception area and a common kitchen. Each family has their own bedroom. The members of the household also look after each other in case a member is ill

I belive join family concept will bring peace and harmony in a country because there in all the occausion people will join together have a discussion before doing anything. Irrespect of elders or young ones every one avail their own chances to tell about their suggestions. So if it is a case then there is large probability of come out with confine solution for all the needs,problmes etc..

This is the thing where all the IT and other industrial companies prefer more now a dys but in the ternm called "TEAM WORK " ofcourse join family is a kind of team work . You can have true love , affection, care, support, motivation more and more in join family than independent house.

So people try make yourself as one of member in join family soon and realize the difference true differnce over there. Its like heaven to you im sure about it .

Folks i would really appreacite your comments . Do not hesitate to give your comments what ever it may be but please be frank . I just want to know is it applicable for all over the world (join family concept) and to know how the perception of each and every one is varying . And also please rate your comments about this topic in my blog too.



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